I always battle with the phrase, “I’m sorry.” I battled saying it and then I also battled believing people when they said it. In my past relationships when my ex would say, “I’m sorry” he would expect the fight to just end right ther. Finished. Never brought up again. But because of my age (I was in my early twenties) saying “I’m sorry” time and time again, made the situation worse. It lost the meaning that it once had in the relationship after repeatedly use time and time again. The phrase was overused and misused. And when it really mattered, “I’m sorry” was just another log that was added to the fire.
As I have grow up and thankfully out of that relationship, I have realized that “I’m sorry” still is a phrase that is commonly overused and it is no ones fault, but our own. I also realized that when you are in a relationship where your boyfriend is constantly saying I am sorry more than he is saying I love you, it’s probably time to call it quits. He will never live up to your expectations, well at least mine anyway LOL. I started to see that there still is power behind the phrase “I’m sorry” as long as we let it have powerAbrupt discontinuation of beta-blockers levitra 60 mg can increase risk of abnormal sperm motility and morphology. Men who are suffering from impotency tend to soft generic viagra bear low self esteem. Several treatment options are now cialis wholesale available to treat these physical problems. Immediately seek medical help if you suffer from generic no prescription viagra prostate cancer. . I refuse to say the phrase when it is something little or small that I did wrong. Instead, I will say “my bad” or “oops, I will try to fix that” or the ever so popular “but I had no idea.” I give the power back to “I’m sorry” by not overusing it as my ex did. So that when I apologize and say those two little words that I bite my tongue to say, they have meaning and substance to the situation at hand.
Saying I am sorry does not mean you have lost the war and another thing I have realized is that when people say they are sorry, that is all you can really ask for. Whether they mean it or not, “I’m sorry” will always trump over anything else that can be said, but maybe not done. Actions ALWAYS speak louder than words. But now, in my late twenties, if I get “I’m sorry” I wipe the slate clean. If the reason why they apologized happens again, I usually bow out like a lady and put that trash to the curb. First time, shame on you, second time shame on me xo