As we jump into the new year, I am beginning to be more weary of people and really starting to analyze just who people say they are. I am finding out however that this is causing two things to happen 1- I am getting rid of people who are haters and dark clouds and 2- I am finding that I am not trusting of people, especially men, because I am so jaded, scarred, and damaged from past relationships.
As we go throughout life, we come across dark clouds as I call them, or people who just always wanna rain down on your parade. They can do this a few ways such as pointing out something negative, turning the spotlight back on them, or the ever so popular, just ignoring you because of your achievement and reconnecting several days or weeks later, like nothing ever happened. They also will never bring up, ask or question your success for fear of the cycle repeating itself. What is it with success and other people? Especially people who we call our friends?
Success is a hard pill to swallow and for many reasons. People tend to compare themselves and their status when they hear of someone else’s success. And when they do that, a defense mechanism for these people, or our friends as we call them will do one or all three of the things I describe that bring in the dark clouds. So then as individuals, we need to step back and decide if this person is always a dark cloud or is going through a rough patch in life and acting out in ways they see fit. As I shrank my group of friends in 2014, 2015 I am realizing that I don’t need to get rid of these people completely, just keep them off at a distance, because whatever they are going through, I can not be what they need right now and I can only focus on my continued success.
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