Fall is here and summer has become just another memory. I find myself sinking a little deeper each day into hibernation mode and I find that the chill that runs threw my bones at night as I walk Abbie, puts the ice back into my blood. Nights like these make me really stop and think about the differences from living down South verses living up North.
When I first moved back to New York, I really was amazed at how rude people are here. How selfish they are, how dark they are and just how obnoxious people up North really are. Little did I know, I found myself adapting and letting the ice return in my veins. When I lived down in Florida, I felt like I had been thrown into another dimension or another world. Southern living is something that is just so beyond what people from the North know. Our lifestyle down in the South quickly slowed down and smiles and friendly conversations with strangers became a thing of the norm. Everyone was friendly with each other and the moment you received a evil glare or a cold shoulder, you muttered
“They must live up North.”
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Even when I came home to visit, I would say hello to people walking on our street and they looked at me ready to whip out their can of mace. Legit. Now that I have been here, I rarely say hello to anyone walking in my neighborhood… that is unless their dog is cute!
Defending my home roots of living in New York, I will say that I deal with people who are a lot more serious about their careers, their lives, and their decisions. Down in the South, anything was game and that included your social life. What you did last weekend at a bar, didn’t matter next Monday at work or you were asked if you were going out the following weekend. Partying on a Tuesday was no different than partying on a Friday. In the South, people strive to be noticed on the social scene where as up North people strive to be out of the papers. There is a lot of pressure put on from friends, co-workers, and even people you meet for the first time, to make a name for yourself in the South. But I would like to think that no matter where I am it amazes me how many people are guilty of name dropping or connections as a way to get ahead.
When looking at the big picture, I would like to think that there is a place somewhere in between. A place that still offers the freedom, friendliness and free spirit that is found in the South, mixed with the career driven, motivated, strong willed attitude found in the North. But for now, I think I need to figure out exactly where I belong and maybe it is the North or the South or somewhere in between. All I know is that I may not be where I am intended to be, but as least my journey is still going xo