No matter what type of relationship you are in or who you are dealing with, communication is key. It is important to establish an open line of communication with friends, family members and even co-workers. However, it is not easy to do that because with communication comes emotion and a lot of the time we get the two mixed up. Our emotions effect our communication and our communication hinders our emotions. It’s a tight rope that we walk when we open our mouths, and to be honest, sometimes our communication doesn’t even require us saying anything, but rather our actions do the talking for us.

I wrote a blog a couple of weeks ago about a Life Lesson that I discovered in the power of remaining silent. Silence can be very deadly, depending on the situation and depending on the people involved. However when it comes to people that you care about, communication is crucial. Silence is an action. It is an action that we take to communicate to others. It is not an appropriate action when we are trying to solve something, or trying to clarify. But there is an appropriate time for silence. That I will always agree with.

When starting a new relationship with someone, it is important to be open and communicate everything. I made that mistake in my last couple of relationships. I did not communicate how I was feeling at the time when something went right or when it went wrong. I also did it with new people in my life. I would not communicate things I didn’t like doing with them, and rather just went with the flow, never looking forward to hanging out with them again, only to do the same thing. And that’s weird for people who know me best. I am a very blunt and open person. But to new people, I tend to be the complete opposite and have a hard time figuring out how to be myself. And maybe that’s because they won’t like who I am, but then why do I want them in my life? I mean everyone deals with the inner fear of being rejected. Right?

Communication always needs to be honest and sincere. I will be the first to admit that I struggle with the sincere part and majority of the time I come off too harsh or aggressive. And ALL of the time I give off the impression that I don’t really give a shit what you are saying and I am just nodding my head to “pretend” to be listening. This is something I have found that I need to work on when it comes to my communication with others. I need to let go of the “I don’t give a fuck” attitude and drop down off the pedestal I have put myself on. And I realize this. Why? Well because a lot of people who do care about me, have told me that I do this and that it hurts their feelings. So I am working on this in all different ways. I am trying to maintain eye contact when someone is talking to me, trying to let them talk and avoid relating their situation to past situations of mine, making it all about me again. This will take one step at a time but this is something that I really want to achieve for myself and for my relationships with my family and friends. If you need ways to be a better communicator – just ask Siri, she always is willing to talk 😉

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So how are you as a communicator? Do you take charge in situations, always wanting your voice to be heard loud and clear?  Or do you sit back and let others kind of take over? Or are you like me and are different around people in different situations? It is important to figure out how you communicate and how others decipher how you communicate to them. In the long run it will make for better relationships, easier career experiences and an smooth way to live life xo