Working with women is hard. Working for a woman is even harder. And being a hard working woman is the hardest. But this should come as no surprise. Women are tough. We are hard to get along with and we are even harder to understand. Our moods vary and our thoughts bounce around like a child on a playground and we have this automatic instinct to always either be always right, always jealous, or always looking for revenge.
I know women could rule, run, dominate this world, if it wasn’t for our emotions or our “shades of gray.” We are not wired like a man. We do not see things as either black or white, but rather we see the in between; the shades of gray. Now there is no reference to my title or my usage of shades of gray to the book (and the terrible movie that just came out, confirming that the book was terribly written, another subject). We see gray and gray is what hurts us.
At one of my past jobs, my supervisor who is a woman, would sporadically turn gray on me. It would be the littlest, most minuscule situations that were meaningless, where she would plan to attack. She would completely overanalyze a simple error that I made and use it as an opportunity to beat me down. And I am not kidding, she literally, verbally abused me. Now she would do this time and time again, sporadically mind you, and at first I’d flip out and get all bothered about it. Now if there is one thing I refuse to allow, it is to be bashed. I am too proud of myself and confident in myself to let someone… anyone, disrespect me in that way. But after time after time, as I saw what she was doing, I would slowly begin to back off. And why do you ask? Well because I realized you can’t fight stupid with stupid, and well she, was being stupid and me sinking her to level was… well, stupid.
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I also analyzed why she was doing this when she was doing it. She was doing it mainly when she felt down about her life and down about herself. Her methods were not to hurt me, which she was ultimately doing, but to build herself up. She wanted to make herself feel better, by harming those around her. Cough, cough, I think we all know a couple of people like this, they are our gray clouds (see previous post). This is a typical move by women in life and especially in the workplace. We can beat down a man verbally and it has no effect on them, it goes in one ear and out the other. And this is the problem. We attack our own kind, where as the men bond together to raise themselves higher up the corporate ladder. It is sad to watch. It really is, because you start to realize that as a woman, really no one has your back, not even your own kind xo
