So I have been playing catch up on the Bachelor over the last couple of weeks, hell I have been playing catch up with my life. I am just so far behind on everything that I am forgetting birthdays, special events, even peoples name. But that’s besides the point. As I caught up last night on the Bachelor, I am starting to see and even hear them say that the women on the show are starting to “fall in love.”
Now I know I am super cynical about love and probably one of loves toughest audiences, but I know it is real and I know of a lot of people that are in it. For example my parents have been married for over 40 years. That is mind blowing for today’s society, but it is also proof that love does exist. These girls are “falling in love” with the bachelor and my first thought is, “umm hasn’t it only been like 7 or 8 weeks? Really?” I don’t think love is something that happens that fast. I think there is infatuation and attraction, but a lot of people seem to be getting that mixed up with love these days. And the girls on this show are true testimonies of that. But what I am seeing, especially now, is that to many who enter this show, love is a game, a competition and the fame has gone to everyone’s head. If they don’t get picked, great, then they have a shot of being the next bachelorette. It’s a mess, but look at me, I am still tuning in to watch it every week.
Love is interesting. I think it is something that happens over time and I do not think that it is suppose to be all hot and heavy in the beginning. It’s called the beginning for a reason. It is the time were you are figuring each other out and figuring out your relationship. And the beginnings take time. They should take time. Everyone is in such a rush to find the love of their life or become an exclusive item that they don’t enjoy the process and they don’t enjoy the beginning. Love takes time. It is not something that should be determined, figured out, proposed to and topped with a bow in 10 weeks. I feel bad for the girls on the show, and I feel bad for the girls watching the show and getting their hopes up that it should happen that it should happen like that for them. The show isn’t realistic. It is not real life and it is no wonder that time and time again these proposals fail and they all end up as wash out on shows like Bachelor Pad and Bachelor in Paradise.Because no matter how fast ejaculation, half a minute or half an hour, there is no 100mg viagra effects essential difference, the man can experience the whole process of sexual response including orgasm. best buy viagra He went on to say “It is one of the best exercise for penis and also for women and is designed for strengthening the pelvic muscle or pelvic floor. Forzest has cialis prescription robertrobb.com to be taken for about 45 minutes or 1 hour before carrying out any sexual activity. Just check with your doctor price cialis and find out the best possible results.
I have always wanted to go on the Bachelor and have my twenty minutes of fame. But after this season and seeing time and time again, how fake everyone is, I would never want to fall in love that way. I would never want to compete for someone’s love nor do I think you should ever have to in life. My big motto for 2015 is if it meant to be, it is meant to be. I have never had this steer me wrong and when something better comes along, I thank God that the past is behind me. So let yourself love and don’t rush it. As harsh as I can be sometimes, I do know that it is out there and it is something that worth falling for xo